.Sunday, April 29, 2007 ' 2:02 AM Y
Office's Bitch
the office's bitch was driving me crazy....my blood was really boiling...
joyce and i had finally realised somthing about her, she loves to COPY what we do or perhaps i should also say that she loves to stick to the people who are with better terms with us...
coz i was wondering why of all people in both agencies, she targeted levi and my boss...
all along, joyce was very close with this guy call levi and of course i m close with my boss as i get to see him like 6hrs a day, 5days a week unless he is out of appointments...
now levi is like her future boyfriend and i seriously dunnoe how to describe the relationship between the bitch and my boss or should i say i dun wish to comment too much too...
incident 1:
i was wearing off shoulder that day and my boss commented it was nice, the very next day, she wore off shoulder too...
incident 2:
joyce brought a pillow to put on her chair behind her back, the next day she brought a cookie monster soft toy and put on my boss's table..
incident 3:
joyce was eating sweet that day and she offered to everyone in the office, the next day she brought a sweet and tried to introduce the "special" sweet to everyone in the office...
those mentioned above are some of the simliar things she tried to do...
the most irritating thing i cannot stand was...
that day joyce was so busy keying cases for all the fsc that she dun have the time to leave her desk to buy things from the pantry for the fsc, the kapo ji try to act nice and friendly and she offered to go pantry for all the dick heads...
and the most fucking thing they can say was:
"joyce you changed liao, h** h** is nicer..."
fucking dick heads who think that got loose hole for them can liao seriously got no brains to think, joyce is busy keying cases for who? for you guys to make sure money go into your pockets but they got the cheek to say this kind of things out...no wonder joyce wants to quit...
the fucking kapo ji with loose hole, you are being paid for not working, you jolly well have the time to go pantry for all the dick heads...
you go smoke for 2hours also nobody care, you dun make phone calls to prospect also nobody scold, you come office from 11am to 2pm, also nobody question you, you stay in boss's room play friendster while acting like working, also nobody know...
finally until thursday, where joyce complained to terence that she came office only for 3hrs and reminded him that he actually......due to some comments from joyce, i decide to take away certain things to avoid furthermisunderstandings...
but can i complain?NO!! coz i complain to who?
after much talking and crying on the phone with my boss, he simply dun get what i mean...seriously i am super stubborn by birth and i dun believe his explaination and reasoning with mi anymore...
no wonder he can visualize mi throwing the letter at his desk...everyone is telling mi not to quit coz if i do, i will lose to her and baby was the only person who tell mi to quit if i am really that unhappy...
last time, i choose to step out of of my past relationship with my ex bf before anything happen and now shld i also step out before her wicked plans got worse to the point i cant tolerate anymore...
i seriously cant imagine myself buying the strait times on thursday morning and flipping through the recruit section like what i did 5mths ago...i was telling joyce, there is only 2 solutions, got her no us, got us no her...
without baby by my side for the past 2weeks after she came and explaining things and calming mi down everyday after my work, i think i would have already break down and turn crazy...
thanks baby...
. ' 1:26 AM Y
St James on Friday
getting ready at Eunice's house before heading down to St James...
my hair suppose to look blonde coz i went to dye my hair, kinda of sick of black although i know now the trend now is black but i dun think i loooked good in black coz i wasnt fair enough...
In PowerHouse's toilet...
our top looked the same right?haha...Baby was kinda pissed off by the music they played on Friday night, somemore got some dunnoe wat event...the queue was super long abd i dun understand why...as in the music wasnt fantastic plus the drink wasnt super cheap like dbl o too, luckily albert was the member so at least the member's queue wasnt that long...it was supposed to be hip hop but i think the first song that we managed to dance along was only played at 2am...and can you imagine we went in t around 12am!!!we waited for 2hrs!!! but luckily, after 2am the songs got better and we left at 3 plus and headed back to hougang for supper at punggol nasi lemak...
i still missed the crazy wednesday we used to have at dblo coz of the drinking and the music at momo where we can just stick our legs to dance floor..and of course phuture and mos were one of our fav hangouts too...we promised to club like crazy on the coming friday...although is with all of our partners around, i think it would be challenging to strike a balance between the fun and with them around...haha...
i still remembered we used to have partners who dun enjoy or even dun allow to have our own life with our own frens...but now i know i have someone who dun mind mi getting drunk and also allow mi to be at the dance floor with my gal frens without him by my side...everytime when we go pubs, i just love to sabo him to drink and hopefully to see him get drank but i think i need to level up my skills first as compared to his in order to make him drank, haha...and he always love to take revenge and ask mi to drink when he lose to mi and he dun even scare about if i cant take the liquor...although i say he dun care but in the end when he sees my pattern and he know i cant take it anymore, den he will start to show his concern...like not letting mi to go toilet alone and of course stop mi from drinking anymore...nevertheless to send mi home as well...
that's the type of boyfriend i was looking for!!!
and i am so glad i found you, weixiang...
. ' 12:50 AM Y
Last Day of Cloud9
It was the last day of cloud 9 and of course the besties have to go down to support..
Eunice, Albert, WeiXiang and I went down and Sandra and Ben was there too...
Eunice brought her 1/6 Martell and 1/2 Chivas over and we opened a bottle of Martell too...
Eunice and i was saying, 1 Martell was always too much for one night but now, 1 Martell was the minimum for us...
Baby and i in the toilet, coz my phone got no flash so can only take picture in the toilet...
dunnoe wat happen to eunice and albert, eunice was vomitting non-stop for the whole night and albert vomitted in the cab while on the way home...i mean albert was supposely to be quite a good drinker from wat i heard from eunice...but in the end, i just cant help laughing at the 2 of them when they stink the whole cab, wahaha, so bad of mi....
In the end, Baby and i were still standing strong!!! haha...anyway baby reminded eunice that he still owe us both a volcano each!! next fri was eunice's last paper, we had already planned to go club on fri and sentosa during the weekends!! We missed the drinking and the beach!!!
. ' 12:32 AM Y
It was Secretary Week!!
My boss brought mi to this nice restaurant at Vivo City...i think it is call Brazillian located at level 1, it is a 'meat' restaurant!!We had the buffet lunch that comes with a free flow at the salad bar and of course free flow of the meat...
the waiter will be walking around to serve the meat, you are suppose to place the green side of the coaster if you need more meat and red for no thanks...but basically they just serve non-stop...
the price was reasonable, i think only $20 for the buffet lunch during weekdays...meat-lovers should try it out...
.Monday, April 23, 2007 ' 10:22 PM Y
i wanted to blog on this topic a week ago but i was too busy...
i was talking to joyce, terence's PA and she told me that actually the gal knew who i was and she told terence's agency this:
"all along i know angel!!"
joyce knew it before hand coz i told her but she acted blur and asked:
"huh?how you know her?"
and she got the cheek to reply:
"her ex bf used to be my colleague..."
so funny!!!
she didn dare to admit, the first time when i asked her about it, she wasnt being honest at all!!!
fuck, was she being naive or trying to be funny?
she think that joyce wont be telling mi what she said to the rest?
she was so confident that ppl will believe her and think she is an angel trying to act like an innocent bitch and i was the devil trying to malign about her past actions right?i told myself i will nv gossip about her unless someone starts asking me about it or starts the conversation with that topic...i dun wan ppl to think that i love to back stabbed about her, seriously i hate ppl asking mi bout her...
anyway those who knows me well will know i wont care whether she will get to read my blog...i wont be afraid to hide anything bout mi not being able to stand her fakeo actions in front of all the ppl in the office...anyway i know guys are always more attract to this kind of soft spoken and always "weak" kinda of gals...not like mi, no matter what happen i will be able to calm myself down and solve the problem myself and not clinging to the males for help...
and pls i would bravely announced that she is flirt and not sociable whereas i m sociable and nv use any flirting power in office...and i would strongly emphasie that a flirt nv get along with new gals frens coz the sight of them make us puke and a flirt definitely get along very well with all guys!! and sociable ppl always get along with both sexes coz they nv priorities their opposite sex are more important...
i felt so bad and guilty and definitely regretted for making the decision to be a nice person so that there can be "world peace"...and to make that fucking phone call to ask her down for the stupid interview..i even apologised to joyce coz i knoe she was feeling so sux everyday now that she feel like qutting the job and 80% was bcoz of her...why give up such a nice boss like terence bcoz of a bitch?
actually i dun really want to comment about her job performance but seriously i dunnoe is she stupid or lazy...that day i was listening to her while she was making phone calls to all the propects and when she hanged up, i asked her:
"so what phone number did you give to the candidate in case they need to call back to enquire on something?"
she replied:
"the phone number found on the phone lo!"
i was thinking you are in a insurance company, use your brain also knoe that number was a hunting line and ppl cant call back de...nvm she still added that where she made the phone call, she will give the number found on that phone itself...WTF! you made phone call eveywhere, you just give all candidates, all different numbers?!?!
think for yourself, i dun feel like commenting much...
the second issue...coz she will be pay according to the number of ppl who turn up for the interview, so i asked her:
"so did you come up with a excel sheet to keep a record so at least they know how much to pay you?"
she replied mi in a super lazy tone which sounded like she will be falling asleep in seconds (that's why guys are attracted to her):
"huh?!, see first lo, haven le, maybe later i will do..."
three words for her, SMART AND LAZY!
so she can just simply anyhow claim the number of candidates that had came down right?! maybe she had already came up with that excel file, i cant be bother to ask again since i am not the one paying her and those 2 who are paying her simply dun care about her job competency and performance, why shld i poke my head into this issue?
third thing, today she was talking to a candidate and when the other party agree to come down at anytime of the day, she said hold on and without covering the phone or putting the call to hold, she just turn her head around and asked my boss something regarding the time or things like that...WTF?! unless you tell me that was her fren den i will sincerely apologise to her for saying she was super unprofessional being a RO...you actually let your prospect overheard your conversation? i dunnoe wat else to say...
for those who are jealous for her good life in AIA, blame yourself for not sending in your resume to us...i can tell you she is quite well paid and her job simply looked more like personal ascot where she is being paid to accompany both the bosses...
when we were out for lunch last week, i asked terence why he dun care abt her job competency and whether is she really doing her job, he cant answer me...
i shouldnt explain further, even idiots know what i want to say...till den, i promised joyce i will pray for her for a better life and not get bully by her...she can nv ride on my head, i know that very well...
and to my boss, i know you will definitely read this, dun try to ask mi anything...thanks
. ' 9:43 PM Y
For once we were so hard working that we woke up early in the morning to go back to Baby's house from my house to pack his stuff and head down to the Beach!!! i was like a pig and refused to wake up after the late nite of ktv at orchard...we still took the train back from hougang to clementi, we are good rite?haha..
in the cab from Baby's house to Sentosa...i used to zi lian with my bestest besties but now no more liao, it has been ages since the 3 of us went the Beach, after Sandra moved to the west and Eunice having her exams...
Baby and i... i wore the top he brought for mi, so nice... haha!!!
while we are on the beach!! i just love his body, wahaha....i know i sound disgusting but i dun care!!!
Baby in action at the court, i took this secretly too, haha!!!!
he was playing vball with his frens while i find a good spot for tanning but there was no sun at all!!!
so baby keep draggin mi to play vball with him and he shld be smart enough to know i dun wan to paiseh myself in front of all his frens coz i dun play vball when i go beach...but after a few attempts of him pulling mi to join him, i agreed...and i shld say it was fun!!! i was telling eunice the next time we go beach must play vball too...she also same pattern as mi, dun dare to throw face in front of ppl but nvm next time got mi to accompany you liao...i was thinking we also not those gu niang scare of balls so dun worry, i think you will perform quite ok de...i didn say i was great but at least i manage to hit the ball but i think to wx, i sux...he simply cant stop nagging at all the things i do...when i drive, he can scold non-stop, cooking also complain so much, got ppl cook for him still dunnoe how to appreciate, now come to vball, missed only, want to nag at mi liao...but i dun care too...wahaha
On our way back to Vivo for dinner...
We had SuperDog, i have been longing for that coz i love hotdogs!!!!
I forced him to take this picture, hehe, he simply just willing to do anything for mi, so nice having him around with mi..
Baby, happy 3mths anniversary!!! and of course more anniversaries to come, right?hehe...
. ' 9:21 PM Y
Baby simply hate ktv but for once he compromised and went ktv with eunice and bert at orchard party world...why party world?coz phoebe was working there and we always get complimentry food and drink, wahaha...having more frens is always good!!!
i simply cant stand how pretty can my bf be, i always love calling him mei nan zi!!! haha
i love this picture not bcoz we looked nice in it coz i know we dun, i love it coz i always love the feeling of being hugged so tightly by him, i doubt he knows it coz i nv mentioned to him before, hehe...but whatever, i knew we enjoyed ourselves
i took this without him knowing, he looked ok right and of course he sang ok too...we shall have more practice right, Baby?
And not forgetting my bestest bestie, Eunice Ong Xue Pei, who is always there for mi!!! i should have take a picture with bert too, but i forgot, i shall put his picture up on our next outing...
that was how Baby and i spend our 3mths anniversary and followed by a day at the beach on the following saturday morning...
i think baby starts to love ktv, we will go there more often and practice on our singing coz he always think he sings badly, i think he was just being paranoid despite numerous time of mi saying he dun...he just dun believe mi, dunnoe why but most importantly we enjoyed each others' company... that's the most important!!!
.Friday, April 20, 2007 ' 9:26 PM Y
I got such a great baby!!! coz my shopping was all sponsored from him, haha!!!
we both love this top from the first look and without a second thought we brought it!!!haha...i wanted a change coz all my tops are either in black or white colour...so i wanted to get stuff of other colours...
baby brought mi this short coz my mother was complaining that the shorts i was wearing at home are all like 10yrs old and i just dun want to buy new ones...like to clarify that, the shorts are only meant for home wear, so nice for wat? some more 10yrs liao, sure comfortable the ma...but baby insist on buying new ones...i finf it so expensive, $19 for a short to be wore at home!! he commented that i can use it for beach too, so i agree to it...
actually i wanted to buy more office wear but in the end i brought another casual top and of course no black colour!! i love this top too, from ZARA and it only cost $11.90, cheap and good!!
thanks baby...hehe!!! i simply love you so much!!!
.Monday, April 09, 2007 ' 12:39 PM Y
went to my cousin's wedding two weeks ago, i always love attending wedding dinner or lunch coz i find it so amazing for both parties to be together from young till love.. to love someone is easy, for someone to love you is not that difficult as well, but both parties to really love each other and spend the rest of their life to agree, is really not that easy coz you nv know whether he or she is the right one for you... 
my dress for the day...and of course my bao bei Gucci bag, haha... 
isnt it lovely?
and so qiao, the date marked on their wedding album falls on weixiang's bday, 14th oct
that was the restaurant i went to...located at harbourfront
they had their tea ceremony at the restuarant itself...
my mother was one of the helper to serve them the tea, she received quite a good angbao for that too haha...
camera men for the day, obviously the ones in power suits are her brothers and the other is not..but i think both of them looked more like bouncer due to their size, i always looked so tiny beside them...
bride of the day and i...and some random pics for the day...
most importantly the food of the day...it wasnt any fantastic so didn bother to talk much about it...
anyway that's all for the day, i m lazy to write...
.Sunday, April 08, 2007 ' 9:35 PM Y
How can any woman on this earth cool down when you encounter the following...
your boss want you to call a list of interviewees and you realise you know one of them, and the good thing is why you know her?
bcoz she used to stick to your bf when she already got a bf and she really causes lots and lots of problem and you just cant get rid of her, and why you cant get rid of her?
bcoz they are colleagues and they just stay a street away whereas you and your bf stay '10 miles' apart, and why didn your bf stop himself from meeting her?
bcoz he say she got problem with her bf and need your bf's opinions and help, and why didn you stop him from meeting her?
bcoz what good reason can you give your bf from meeting her?
none!
so will you still call her for the interview when you know she may get the job and you will have to see her everyday?
ok, i did call her and yes she got the job and know i will have to see her every single day!
so can which gal out there tell mi how would you handle the suitation?!?!
anyway that bf i was refering to, was my ex bf but seriously the gal is going to report work on this coming tuesday.
seriously i dunnoe how da fang can i go.
shortly after my ex bf know this gal, we got lots of problem coz i simply cant trust that gal as she asked my ex bf out every night for coffee and the time i can have to spemd with my bf was already very limited. we broke up but till den i still dunnoe whether she was involve in the decision of mine when i raise the break up to my ex bf.
although it was history but usually history lesson requires us to rmb the facts hardm by our heart and and mind, coz i was once a history student. and i know i m someone who rmb things real hard which mean i am a very revengeful person haha. but like i tell my boss, i wont be putting thumb tacks on her chair coz anyway is all over too.
the suitation that happened is similar to a gal letting the bf go when she knew he will be meeting another gal you cant trust, and why? coz you really dunnoe to trust your bf even if you cant trust the gal and usually your bf will definitely assure you by saying the following few lines...
1. "pls lah, she got bf liao la. somemore i know the bf too! you think i will sntach ppl's gf?!?!"
in this era we are in now, do you really think who still care abt who got bf or gf? especially the people of my age group, i seriously think that got bf or no bf dun play a part at all! trust is the hardest and most difficult thing to build on earth. and most of the time guys really fell out on each other bcoz of the gals around them.
2. "pls lah, this kind of pattern you think i will like?! lie to you got money is it?!?!"
just take a closer look at your bf's ex gfs, most of them are of different styles and patterns. so do you think you can trust him when he say that? and of course your bf wont want the money from you even after he lied to you.so that's talking cock!!~
3. "pls lah, i know her since pri sch le, want to be together, still must wait until now?! SIAO!~!~"
you never know when the spark will strike between two people, you never know when will God wants the couple to start the relationship. and obviously i got real life examples around mi that i know of that is why i dare to say that.
and the last one,
4. "pls lah, if i really got anything with the gal, i CHOP ah!"
you think one fine day if your bf really get togather with the gal, you still want his dick or balls for wat? and you think your fucking bastard bf will really chop?! den you must be naive when he say that to you. dick and balls are their number one wife lo
till den shld you blame yourself for not being unreasonable enough in the first place to stop your bf in the first place or blame yourself being not able to keep your bf by your heart and side bcoz the gal is more bitch than you. and you lose to her.
how far can you trust your bf when he was notorious for his 'past record'?
or how far can your bf take your unreasonable shit when you nag at him everyday to stop him from going out?
and also how far can you take the shit from your bf if he abuse the trust you given him?
which move will you take?
i failed my history during o levels, so is obvious i will nv have an answer despite my past experience...
i nv learn my history well enough.
relationship dun build on trust, for mi i think that relationship build on no lies coz..
no lies = trust
but
trust ≠ no lies
till den, i will be loving my wx coz i believe wat is mine is mine, no point fighting with others and of course he will stay means he will stay, no point begging him to stay too!~ you will agree with mi de right? good luck to all the gals out there~!~!
9 more days to go...
. ' 12:51 AM Y
After the splurging of my gucci bag, i went over to my grandma's place for a pre-celebration for my cousin, Jasmine's wedding. lots of good food followed by mahjong, our usual activitiy.
tml will be followed by more good food at 88 restaurant at harbourfront caber car tower for the wedding lunch, shall blog more on the good food after it.
till den, happy holidays to all...
